I define success as the attainment of purpose without compromising core values. So we start with a conversation about your success. To begin, I want to know:
What exactly are you looking to accomplish?
Why is that important to you?
What is standing in your way?
The caveat is, after our first call together you might not want a second. Why? Because on the call I am going to show you where you have been believing your own bullshit.
It is where you are not being authentic you will find things are not working the way you really want. So that is where we start. That is where you can have a breakthrough and quickly see improvement.
A clear understanding of the current state, a compelling story, and a well-developed strategy are key factors that predicate superior performance and results. You can click on any of the links above to find out more.
Or...
"Choose the red pill and I will show you how deep the rabbit hole goes."
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If something isn't working for you, a good place to look is where integrity is compromised. Where integrity is compromised, agreements fail, relationships crumble, systems falter, chaos prevails. Lacking integrity, you dishonour yourself and depreciate the value of your word.
Dishonesty sets off a chain reaction of consequences that invariably leads to suffering. Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, financially, and within relationships. Failing to honour and appreciate your word undermines your power, credibility, and effectiveness. Neglecting your commitments gradually erodes your health, wealth and happiness. You already know this to be true. You also know that being true, especially to yourself, works.
Being true to yourself is the unwavering commitment to honouring your own essence and experience. Rather than conforming to societal expectations or trying to be someone you are not, being true requires expressing the truth or your identity. Trusting your own judgement, learning from your mistakes, and embracing whatever you believe to be your own highest power.
When you are true to yourself you are fully responsible for the meaning that you give to things and the way you walk the earth. Always owning the impact of your words and actions. This leads to genuine self-expression and fulfillment. The challenge is, being honest with yourself and others often requires taking risks, dealing with uncertainty, and breaking through your own mental resistance. It also means consistently taking action. Despite your fantasies, fears and doubts.
Do what you say.
Be in communication when you can't do what you say.
Hold an empowering context.
What you choose for your future is more important than whatever you believe about all your past experiences and your present capabilities.
Mike Highstead